Blogger Recognition Award

This morning I was kindly nominated for the Blogger Recognition Award by the author of https://purelandsutras.wordpress.com/

I feel flattered to have been appreciated by a fellow dhamma blogger, especially one who is so generous with their mind and works. I greatly recommend you visit purelandsutras.wordpress.com to enjoy the sutra translations. 

The Rules of the Award are as Follows:

  1. Thank the blog who nominated you and provide a link to their blog.
  2. Write a post to show the award.
  3. Share the experience that prompted you to start blogging.
  4. Give a piece of advice to new bloggers.
  5. Nominate 15 other blogs and personally inform them of their nomination.

How bite-size dhamma was born:

For many years I would search out Buddhist parables, sayings, and stories on the internet. I very much enjoyed reading them and considering their meanings.  I know many people enjoy this too so my blog was born out of the one simple thought:

“Why don’t I start collecting my favourites all in one place for everyone to benefit from?”

So I did, and I’m still at it. 

Advice to New Bloggers:

Blog about something that genuinely interests you. Don’t worry too much about followers and likes in the early days, just enjoy blogging and try to spread a good message 

I Nominate:

A few of the above are very new and could use some love. 🙂

Crows

If the mind is continually in good shape, evil won’t have any place to land or catch hold. But if our goodness isn’t constant, evil will be able to find a perch. It’s like rowing a boat out into the ocean. If we stay close to shore, crows flying from the shore will be able to perch on the mast of the boat. If you don’t want them perching there, you have to row out as far as you can. The crows then won’t be able to perch on the mast. If any crow tries to keep flying out to the boat, it’ll lose sight of the shore and is likely to die out there in the ocean, because it’ll run out of strength, it’ll run out of food. It’ll have to die.

In the same way, if goodness catches hold of the greater part of the mind, evil will have to circle aimlessly around with nowhere to land. If it stays close by — meaning that goodness has only a small part of the heart — evil will be able to come flying in. Sometimes it waits on the opposite shore. If your strength of mind runs low, it’ll stay right nearby and catch hold of you easily.

– Ajahn Lee.

Bag of Nails

Once upon a time there was a little boy with a bad temper. His father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he should hammer a nail in the fence. The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. But gradually, the number of daily nails dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence.

Finally the first day came when the boy didn’t lose his temper at all. He proudly told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper. The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence.

“You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out, it won’t matter how many times you say ‘I’m sorry’, the wound is still there.”

– Unknown origin.